My 1st!

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One weekend, a sorority sis of mine, who was once my "anak" asked me if I could be one of their "Ninang." I hesitated. I felt lile I was too young to be one. I'm barely 34! A dozen thoughts suddenly floated inside my mind. Should I accept it? I'm too young to be one. Would I be able to counsel them? Would I be a good godparent? 

It took me more than 24 hours to reply. I didn't feel slighted that she asked me. What I was more worried about was whether or not I would be able to fulfill my role as a godparent. I even had to ask my husband. In the end, YES won. It was not  because they say it's "malas." It was also not because I felt duty bound being a sorority sister. 

So what made me say YES? I felt it an honor that they have chose me. Maybe, just maybe, our marriage is something they look up to. It may not be a perfect one. It certainly had its ups and downs. However, it's something that I have made a commitment to. 

So to Rommel and Mayett, cheers to your marriage. And thank you for choosing me. 

PS. I had fun dressing up!




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